可是我完全没有头绪要怎么去处理，第一个想到的是去缝咯。。
我自己本身也只有缝的经验！

他一开始的时候还很steady， 完全不会痛也没有哭
只是全部人那边喊大姑大姑啊BOY的头流血
他被小姑敲到流血。。

原来他们在一旁玩耍，我妹妹笑到露齿就很兴奋的去敲啊BOY的头！！！
所以就流血咯。。
在他的旧伤口添加另外两个新伤口。。

看看吧。。。

Our timing to Miri is different, as we wanna give both of them surprise!!
My brother, Rambo go first in the date of 28.10.2009
My mum and my sis went in the date of 29.10.2009
And leftover children will be keeping up with the flight on 30.10.2009!!
30 of October is my mum and my sis b’day… and we going to give them a shock!

While in the terminal…
We really bored, and there a lot of people awaiting for the flight!
Day seems ok! Just a bit dark coz night time liaw mar…

My 2nd bro, Nephew, niece and me!!

Christina was sitting at the aluminum thingy, means is really bored!! How come the flight is so slow…!
WALAO… T.T

Reach Miri ::

Just reach the hotel that my auntie had book for us,
Just front step, step into the hotel nia…
My bro straight away started to planning what kind of surprise we need to have, which will really surprise them…
I can’t remember what is my idea… but most of all is rejected…Haha

In the end, we plain to hide at the wall where I usually stand in the photo..!!! Christopher is just too happy and keep jumping on the bed.. Ish!

My mum’s birthday cake which we all really keen to eat it..!!!
But in the end non of us eat the cake, we even lost the cake…
=.=”

We lighten up the candles when we had successfully “surprise them” My mum think it was ghost at first..
Coz we sang Happy birthday loudly and my mum was just frighten… Hahahaha!!

Mission successful.

Haha,, me, mum and my sis in law…
In the end we are not ghost!!!

My brother says that he going to take videos and post it up to youtube..
For a memorial surprise for my sis and my mum…
Oh ya, procedures of surprise photo is taken coz we use to take video… to make it even real.!

The next day ::

Having breakfast with my aunt but my the other aunt went for work first..
Hmm…
Is a great breakfast today coz my sis just got an birthday’s angpao from her father, so I think she chia with willingly! but she really a bit worry we finish eating up her money..
Money is easy to earn for her!
SWT =.=

Me, my aunt and Christina, nana!!
This pose we usually learn from my sis-in-law if not wrong!!
I can’t remember , but this virus is spread by a girl.. haha

Going to my elder aunt. Nana lose up her energy, she was really exhausted from the trip. Haha, and my aunt cook us something for lunch..

She really a great cooker.

Siblings .. my both unties live in Miri only my mum stay at Kuching..

One of cousin’s baby.. he’s a bit heavy for me.

We use Ford as our trip transport, due to too many of us and began to have the feeling like family trip.
So ‘WE’ siblings and niece and nephew sit at the back there..
The air blew us, and a bit refreshing also i can smell some dioxide gas. Is definitely smelly.
Taking few photos after we reach at my untie house.

Reach dunno what place here, can’t really remember but I need to insist that my untie had intro to me few times about this place.
hHhaahaha,
Is look like how short memory am i.HUH?

We really do have a great time, thought is a bit tiring and cam-whore so much… Hope u guys like it..
And haha, i will improve my english de….

Last but not least…
I needa thanks to my lovely untie.
Thousands of thanks

To join this ceremony there is terms and regulations de oo.
- You need to be married of course
- You never married in church (like christian marriage)
- You have to be in this church, Blessed Church.. any partner would be..

There are 167 or 169 couples joining this ceremony.. It was touched!
Coz they had go through many trials edand difficulties yet they are able to love each other again, holding hands together.
Especially the world are getting wicked.
Prostitute are almost everywhere. They broke family by families…
How many families have they destroy? And how many times husband and wife cannot face one of the trials?
Divorce would probably happen Since that the rate of divorcee are getting increase
Then why not, we try to make it decrease..
I mean, you have the right to change the situation…

A healthy family need LOVE..
LOVE is the point to strengthen you and I..
Without LOVE in a family, there will be quarrels, disobeyed , ungrateful, hatred, don’t feel like staying at home and etc..
Parents and children have their right to makes the difference.. HUH!

Before the ceremony, there are three days lesson you must attend.
To able attend the ceremony, you need bear in mind, what is should and what is shouldn’t in a marriage.

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Chia Siang suddenly ask me go pick him up,
as because he always bring me out and be so good to everyone and me also la,
that is why I  agree to bring him up….
If u noe me well, I am the kind of ‘ngiao JI’ people, and my mum usually will they dun have car merh and the lalalala….
But I’ve been kindly since I was borned.. So I am Not So the Ngiao Ji lor.
=.=”

Chia Siang go and pick up his coat
He had chose a quite funny coat for me lar, but since he need it or want it so much,
then I dun dare to make more any statement regarding to his coat..
But seriously is so much like the man playing piano on the stage de…
Sorry, I dunno how to describe.

Er!! How sweet they are huh?

He was picking this tie at first, but it seems so unsuitable him,
Complain : Is more to girl, not suit your wearing, and OH NO…

Group Photos of Prince and Princess… Beautiful lady and Handsome man ::

These are the out door want…

And indoor de.

Can you found my brother?? Since it had zoom until so near
I think this is the maximum of zooming gua..

Girls / Ladies / Women / Princesses ::

Boys / Gentlemen / Men / Princes

So easy to find my brother??
You know why??
Coz he was wearing a white coat?
But why there is someone wearing white coat ler, since that most of the men wearing black?

Hahaha,, actually this ceremony is kind of CUTE to illustrate them..
Coz of their obedience and lalalallalallala.. and you look at them…
UNCLES AND AUNTIES WEARING WEDDING COAT AND GOWN IN A HIGHER AGE ^^

My niece and nephew.

The bigger they am the sweeter they am..
Boy change to man, and girl change to woman..
KinTio yi xia de.
But they really sweet.

Family photo…
They seems like photostatted from same gender..

YEah! They really grew up fast..
In unrealized they are getting taller and taller.. and me will be going older and older!! So the swt =.=”

My Asao photo shoot ::

Another family photo, Christina looks tired..
Coz they were at church since in the morning, yet they did not have their meal, so they really tired for that

Christina found his ???

Sis in law, photo shoot ::

Can you actually find where she is?!! She is just surrounded my a lot of women!!

He is Photographer of the day.. He is only one of the photograph of the day Oo
Besides, he is PhilArt Taoke..
Dun play play.

Our sweet sweet Mrs., Mrs. and Datin.

Another shoot for my sis-in-law ::

While praying

Yeah!! Couple shoot..
not bad huh?

I believe that the post of  my bro, is learn from his son, christopher chai

Photo taking time… Yeah,, chit chatting and get ready-ing

So the kintio when looking at those reporters la.. and photographer la and family members..

Sis-in-law younger sister’s first child.. I usually call him chong chong..!
He was to adorable in my eyes..
Although starting he will reject me when I wanna hug him.. but now he seems not afraid of me…
I think is great!!
U noe what.. I ask him clap his hand.. He clap
I ask him say YEAH!! He say YEAH!!
I ask him Gimme 5, he gimme 5..!!
he was just So the cute…

Praise and worship time ::

There are 100++ tables here… A bit shocking..

My sister, I am the one who help her make up…
And guess wad, just to help her to make up,
I was late for my make up also, and I was so so kek tiok that day…
No one even bother what I am talking…
coz inside the car I dun really can concentrate on make up,
So i have to continue my make up until I reach ther,
Walao… I ask her to wait for me,
Mana tau!! Hilang diri fast fast..
In the end left me alone inside the car lor…

Christina.. was so happy that she can eat liaw..

My sis and christopher…

Both of them, were said to be onme gang…
Coz, Christina will always come to chong chong when they meet up..
And Christina will not go near him, as Christopher seems a bit not ngam with chong chong..
but I believe that is not a problem.. Christopher like him too just that they are not like so close just like christina and chong chong gua.

Adorable chong chong…

My cousin, Lili Que… She like chong chong also.. She says that chong chong really please some one to like him…

me and chong chong.. happy that he didn’t reject my hug.

The first one, I thought i was my sister… Really!! I just think don’t think that is me…

Christopher, me and chong chong…!! My sister shut chong chong mouth.. haiz….

Haha.. thought I look ugly a bit.. but to rmb this… bo pian needa post up..

Christopher and Christina… SO the eng tao boy and leng lui!!

Look at christopher at 2nd photo… He was acting cute…
Just like his father. Rambo Chai

Christopher and my mum…

See!! Chong chong clap his hand.. just lke what i said…
CUte right??

Christopher praise and worship.. Dun play play oo..
A lot of children, don’t really know how to praise and worship God..
but Christopher is different.. He seek favor in God eyes… AMEN.

Family photos time ::

Yea… both of them was just so … ER!! No comment…!!! ::

Kek si me, the Chrisptoher Chai.. block our time.. but at least he block Lili not me..
Muahahahha

Me and my sis-in-law…
I look fat huh!!??? Look at my hand and my dress.. Oh NO ar.

Photoshoot of mine and Christopher ::

Hahahahhaha… Cute isn’t he?

I like auntie chiew ling a lot, but she like more my sister..
But nvm.. I was not gain favor in her eyes but but sometimes, I really wanna talk to her…
There is a reason : Coz every time she lead the prayer meeting, she will just point out my mistake..
I mean through the touch of Holy Spirit la.. I never tell her my problem…
but God use her to talk to me.. Is a great thing.. and it was suppose to be!
Within 4 leaders who ever lead prayer meeting.. She was the most point out my weakness..
I really thank and thank…
Wulalala…
just keep inside my heart of admiring her.. Muahahhahaha…!! Hopefully she dun read this..

My mum… Look at her wrinkles!!
More wrinkles coming out from her because of worrying for us.. Her children..
She is a greatest mum that I ever had..

Gift flower to Pastor..!! They both was so paiseh…

Mum just look jealous on us… Hahaha

My sister and my brother…
I really believe that, they both have the genes of singing.. My sis are talented by God..
God has prepaid a blessing for my sister, and I believe it would be something that connecting  with singing stuff lo..
And my brother was preparing for his Remnant ministry… He will make it de…!
Just because they are my sister and my brother and God will lead their way.

Haiz… sometimes I just dunno why I will get angry at my sister…
She just so qian bian sometimes..
Thought we are christian but we are still human right…
What really makes me happy de, is that she younger than me but her outlook looks older than me…
Muahahahhhahahaha.

My 2nd bro look cute here…
My brother and I was kek kin cool!!!
Hahaha.. how is it?

Ching cai shoot time ::

Brother shoot time ::

Hiaw in toilet ::

Come across my ZHI LIAN photo ^^

Guess what!! They say I am using wig-
Thought I admit i use for the top nia nia.
Hahaa, but guess what
Someone says that iM using a ‘HOT’ wig…
Do i???

END liaw…..
Don’t spread your blood anywhere..

BEING A MOTHER…

After 17 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to take another woman out to dinner and a movie. She said, ‘I love you, but I know this other woman loves you and would love to spend some time with you.’

The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my MOTHER, who has been alone for 20 years, but the demands of my work and my two boys had made it possible to visit her only occasionally.

That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie.

‘What’s wrong, aren’t you well,’ she asked?

My mother is the type of woman who suspects that a late night call or a surprise invitation is a sign of bad news.

‘I thought it would be pleasant to spend some time with you,’ I responded. ‘Just the two of us.’ She thought about it for a moment, and then said, ‘I would like that very much.’

That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit nervous. When I arrived at her house, I noticed that she, too, seemed to be nervous
about our date. She waited in the door. She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to celebrate her last birthday on November 19th.

She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an angel’s. ‘I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they were impressed,’ she said, as she got into that new white van. ‘They can’t wait to hear about our date’.

We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very nice and cozy. My mother took my arm as if she was the First Lady. After we sat down, I had to read the menu. Her eyes could only read large prints. Half way through the entries, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting there staring at me. A nostalgic smile was on her lips. ‘It was I who used to have to read the menu when you were small,’ she said. ‘Then it’s time that you relax and let me return the favor,’ I responded.

During the dinner, we had an agreeable conversation-nothing extraordinary but catching up on recent events of each other’s life. We talked so much that we missed the movie.

As we arrived at her house later, she said, ‘I’ll go out with you again, but only if you let me invite you.’ I agreed.

‘How was your dinner date ?’ asked my wife when I got home. ‘Very nice. Much more so than I could have imagined,’ I answered.

A few days later, my mother died of a massive heart attack. It happened so suddenly that I didn’t have a chance to do anything for her.

Some time later, I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant receipt from the same place mother and I had dined. An attached note said: ‘I
paid this bill in advance. I wasn’t sure that I could be there; but nevertheless, I paid for two plates – one for you and the other for your wife. You will never know what that night meant for me. I love you, son.’

At that moment, I understood the importance of saying in time: ‘I LOVE YOU’ and to give our loved ones the time that they deserve. Nothing in life is more important than your family. Give them the time they deserve, because these things cannot be put off till ’some other time.’

Somebody ::

• Somebody said it takes about 6 weeks to get back to normal after you’ve had a baby….

• somebody doesn’t know that once you’re a mother, ‘normal’ is history.

• Somebody said you learn how to be a mother by instinct…

• somebody never took a three-year-old shopping.

• Somebody said being a mother is boring….

• somebody never rode in a car driven by a teenager with a driver’s permit.

• Somebody said if you’re a’ good’ mother, your child will ‘turn out good’….

• somebody thinks a child comes with directions and a guarantee.

• Somebody said you don’t need an education to be a mother….

• somebody never helped a fourth grader with his math.

• Somebody said you can’t love the second child as much as you love the first….

• somebody doesn’t have two children.

• Somebody said the hardest part of being a mother is labor and delivery….

• somebody never watched her ‘baby’ get on the bus for the first day of kindergarten … or on a plane headed for military ‘boot camp.’

• Somebody said a mother can stop worrying after her child gets married….

• somebody doesn’t know that marriage adds a new son or daughter-in-law to a mother’s heartstrings.

• Somebody said a mother’s job is done when her last child leaves home….

• somebody never had grandchildren.

• Somebody said your mother knows you love her, so you don’t need to tell her….

• Somebody isn’t a mother.

my sister in 3rd round competition… hahaha..!! her voice really amazed a lot of people..
proud of her voice and her..
she really did very well in every competition..
and she really did training for her singing…
not like me… wait until the last day den simply prepaid..
hahaz..

Is my wrong for not update anything to my blog..
Hehe..! I am sorry with it…
No update~
No response~

sO nowW ::

Both of Us.. will bring u some pictures… make u laugh ‘maybe’

quite a day for not update my blog..
this 2 weeks, it seems that so many things happen to me..
*group gathering is at my houz and i am in a mess. i dunno what to do on that time..
*first time organize a gathering, which come my houz having dinner..
*quarrel with my friend
*found my 1st job ever
*seems like God is blessing me in a specific way

and

~~~~lalalalalalalalalalalalalalalala~~~~

well, have to admit that…
it was my enjoy time while staying at my mum shop..
owez seen something weird weird or rude rude staff appear to my mum shop..
which i was actually im helping my mum..
i consider myself as a worker there when customers ask who am i la,, am i a new worker la..
things like dat… den i will act like oh ya!! i am..
i am so new here.. i work part time that why u seldom saw me..
hmm,,
but most of the time i was taking my nap.
muahaha..

tah tang.. let me intro u my cousin

loOk at her.. wad she is doin ther. oh No!

Lili her link.. have a look at her blog ya…
she post many pictures up..
but can hardly understand what she actually wanted to tell us..

she is ani.. people say she cute most of the time…
i like her long long hair..
yeah! and sometimes those ojisan like to buy drinks for her.. kek si me..
thx her thought.. as engllish have a word .. says i jump u jump.
den the ojisan buy another extra sometimes 3 or 4 drinks..
deni can have the drink oso.. save money,
i was happy happy.. happy.

both of them… me no comment…

killing mr.bean precious doll…. that doll is belong to Lili d. of course is soft copy d. the hard copy d is at mr. bean there..
how lame ho!!
and she is kind of ruthless.. oh no. hoping that im not like dat hiak hiak

when they are free… (shut my eyes..)

the girl with blue shirt d.. she is known as Kok hua’s cooking mother.. haha
end^^

my brother went to Taiwan le lohr..
hmm.. sobsz.. Sienz,
I only can see him for 3 days after i come back from Miri..
hmm..
Why like that de bo.!?
those 3 days we didn’t talk much..
coz he busy with his stuff, and he seems like so bo xim talking with me..
Maybe i didn’t buy anything for him lor.. so he bo xim talked with me..
hmm..
Sobxs
abaden..
i quite creative de also..
the day before he went to kl..
i do some cleaning in my room, and i found a box of chocolate which bought by my sis-in-law and him..
den i was thinking.. hmm, my brother like to eat chocolate..
hopefully this chocolate can make him cry..!!! (too touch by my caring)
hmm..
i guess i think too much!

and he soon wil coming back also.
my sis in law told me that he will fly back to kuching in the date of 22nd April,2009
if im not mistaken..

hopefully he bring something for me..! yAHooO!

I looking forward..

My auntie come back from Miri to celebrate Chinese New Year coz she said this year is a very special year for our family… as last year.. parents had divorce and had go through so hard so tough days..
Is glad to say that i have a very good untie, she is patient, keep the words of God, and etc etc.. She help my mum a lot, not only my mum but our whole family members.
Thought she sometimes really “LOSO” but thanks God for He giving me such a great untie.
Anyway.. SO THE DISAPPOINTED. she came here for two DAYS only.. Haiz,,

If anyone who had read my last year April post, you might know I’m living in what type of family situation. Just when i preparing this post, i refer back what i had post past year.
I was stunned at first, coz i don’t believe what i had wrote. I believe when i preparing that post, i was full with anger and i willingly destroyed my father reputation without thinking twice.
OMG. Maybe is a way for me to vent for my anger.

BAck to new year topic. ^^ .

Before we rushed to our kampung, we took few family photos 1st..

1st year family photo without father..

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Look at our eyes.!?
Everyone is still in sleeping mood.. Haha

Especially this one.. look at my bro eyes ‘Sleeping eyes’

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........ABADEN.

we went to Kampung le lorh..!
Didn’t bring camera back to Kampung so i didn’t take any photos…
Hmm,,
SObS.
visit a lot relatives house…
All i dunno d. i just know their face nia but actually i seen them before but dunno them.
haha

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Back to KUCHING……..

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My uncle family come visit house.. haHa..

their Family photo…
Hahaha…

my uncle son and daughter, the son is wearing the blue colour shirt.

Their daughter…

Father in law and mother in law of my uncle..

my the other uncle… He is a good good uncle

And my MAMA,, Kek sweet.
CHEeh!